I wrote a great piece of why my life has been like a circus. But I have to type it up and today it not the time I feel like sharing it.
I have bruised my back, so it's now recovering slowly....I'm stubborn and have to clean, so as you can imagine pain and cleaning don't mix.
I saw my Nan yesterday and feel much better, I'm going for Sunday dinner, which is something I have done in a while with family, and usually the ones I did go to it resulted in arguing between someone. I get sensitive, I don't hide it and say I don't. But sometimes I have to step back and think am I overreacting.
I have an issue that the more I talk about the more I let it go, but I see people around me who have these mums they can dump their kids on whenever they want, I say dump because that is exactly how they see it. I don't have that luxury and I never did when the Bitch did talk to me.
I could see it that I am strong and did it on my own, but I also see it that my face didn't fit and neither did my child.
I still laugh at one of my sisters, a few people where she lives say a lot of things about her, and some of these people she things are friends. She reaps what she sows....and for me I think it's karma.
brokendownangel
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What goes around comes around hun, at least you were always true to yourself and your daughter!
Leave the bloody cleaning - it will still be there when your back is better you know, life is too short to intentionally cause yourself more pain!!
Enjoy that visit with your gran and lunch, sit back, eat, take in everything but don't lower yourself to comment if the conversation heads in a direction you think is bad, just smile to yourself in the knowledge that you will be going home to spend time with people that love you.